There is no situation in your present, past or future that doesn’t have the perfect balance of ‘perceived’ upsides to downsides. The total sum of both opposites will ALWAYS equal ZERO, which in reality equals LOVE.
You might think you want the highs of happiness and joy but then you are hit with the balancing lows of sadness and sorrow which cause you to get angry and frustrated with those that you believe have caused you the pain (you might even get angry at yourself).
What If you were to aim for ZERO- no highs or lows, but instead a more poised and equilibrated mind that didn’t label things as good or bad but instead understood that it ‘it just is what it is’.
What if you took the time to find the upsides to the so called “shitty day” or the fact that your wife was banging the Jim’s Mowing employee every second Friday when he came round to cut your grass and snip your edges?…. How much of a relief would it be to be able to see the complete love and balance in all of your stressful situations and be able to say THANK YOU for the experience, leaving you without any resentment or anger towards yourself or others?
There is nothing but LOVE in your world and it’s only your minds filter that judges it any other way. Go and see the love that is around you and when you struggle to find it……… Keep looking. I can promise you it’s always there-no exceptions.