Have you found the benefits to being overweight?
If you can see how carrying that extra bit of weight is actually helping you and has the same amount of upsides as it does downsides, you will take away the “need” to lose weight and instead turn that weight loss goal it into a “want”.
Here’s a question for the Girls.. Whenever you met a “needy” guy did you give him what he wanted or did you prefer to go for the guy who was more secure about himself and wasn’t giving off the desperate vibe?
Guys….. You know when you’re in a drought with the ladies and NOTHING you do seems to break the spell and the harder you try the more shut downs you get. Or the flip-side is you’ve been shagging that much that you don’t even go looking for it but it just seems to fall into your lap without any effort. Why is that? Why does it pour when it rains? Could it be where you are resonating at or possibly the energy that you might be giving off?
Chicks don’t dig needy guys (guys don’t dig needy girls either) and the more pushing and desperation there is the less chance of scoring.
Well… The universe is the same.
God, Universe (call it whatever you want) doesn’t “do” needy.
If you’re “needy” and “desperate” to trim those arms and thighs then you might be better served to take away that sting. By finding the positives to your current body shape and discovering how it has just as many downsides to be “skinny”, you allow yourself to see the bigger picture. That bigger picture is unconditional love for yourself and all that you are. You don’t need anything and if you think you do then you should start by taking that thought and dismantling it.
Whether your arse is phat or fat………..You’re exactly where you are meant to be, and when you can be grateful for where you are you will be more likely to get the goal that you want, and if you shouldn’t so happen to get that goal then it’s OK because you would of already arrived at complete love and gratitude for your NOW.
If you don’ love your present situation then you are not on board with reality, and if you’re not on board with reality then that’s where stress and depression creep in. Take away the stresses and anxieties in your life by arriving at self-love and appreciation and watch all your “wants” come flying at you.
PS Every guy loves a bit junk in the trunk anyway, just ask Kanye West- he loves it!